I don’t like my boyfriend romantically and I feel awful for it. He told me he loved me today for the first time and I live with so much guilt. I love him as a person but just, not romantically but I don’t want to crush him I’m his first girlfriend. I’m an awful person.
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I’ve been in a relationship like this too and let me tell you, if you know that you do care for him as a person and not romantically, and know that those feelings will not change, then it’s best for the both of you to break it off. You obviously care about him, but you have to take your feelings into consideration as well and realize that if this is not what you want, you can’t force yourself to enjoy it, even if you want to for his sake. It will only hurt you, trust me. If you are to break it off, make sure to tell him that you do care about him very much, just not romantically, and that in doing this, you never wanted to hurt him. Since it is his first relationship, it will obviously be hard on him, and it will take time for him to get better. But in the long run, it would be better for the both of you if you split so nothing happens that either of you will regret. Best of wishes, G
Also P.S. you are not an awful person, so please don’t put yourself down for this.
If she innitiated the relationship, blew him for years and had sex with him or his long lost loser friemds.. she IS an aweful person thogh. Haha
Psh, you wish. You don’t know shit about relationships and can’t even spell worth shit. So go fuck off, kid.