A lie.. to myself. I don’t want to face the fact that my boyfriend is a loser. He is 50, and if he doesn’t have his act together now, he never will. I don’t want to leave him, but I will not have the life I envisioned with him. I can’t keep lying to myself, or him, anymore. Maybe he’ll end it first?
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Leave him if you’re so unhappy
Why hang around?
Either get out or out up w it
You decide
Sounds like my partner. Sometimes, in fits of anger, I have threatened to leave if he doesn’t pull his s*it together NOW. He answers “Here, you see, I AM a total loser, nothing in my life works, I can’t even keep you, why do I keep living at all”.
I have no idea how much of this is his real opinion, and how much is a power trip, “Look, I tell her i AM a loser but she’s still here”.