My spouse proposed a poly-amorous relationship, and used it as a way to distance themself from me over the resulting year, before wanting to downgrade me from wife to girlfriend. I couldn’t take it- and so we separated.
They left me for a *married* man and a shut in never had a job woman.
I’m hoping that it implodes- having met those people before, they hate each other and are toxic in general. So even though I don’t want my spouse back, I’m hoping that their choice of partners results in them being alone.