A wonderful friend of mine was talking about a tough issue she was going through and I wanted to be there for her since she always seems stressed off. About halfway through the conversation she pulls out her iPad to show me a picture of the person who she was complaining about, so i walk over to look. I look at the picture and i turn to her and she continues talking. I suddenly find myself staring down her shirt as she’s talking to me and I see her t**.
I feel awful now because i wanted to listen to what she said and all that but my dumbass f****** looks down her shirt. She didn’t notice but i still feel f****** awful. She trusted me with all this stuff and my primate brain just objectifies her. Ugh, day ruined.
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that’s good that you feel guilty about it and want to support her. you’re a good person.
Thank you, that means lot!
If you really feel that bad about it p, tell her what you did and how you feel about it. I had a friend who was molested as a child, I accidentally grabbed her boob and she thought it was hilarious. Can’t guarantee the same with her, but talking with her will make you feel better. And who knows, she might even feel that she can trust you to do the right thing.
Thank you for the advice, I’ll definitely consider it!
You better not tell her you looked down her shirt just do what the first comment says
Yah don’t worry i’m not going to tell her about it, I just wanted to let the person who commented know that any advice or support was appreciated!