Just heard my ex girlfriend Sarah has lung cancer and I’m heartbroken. I feel responsible because I’m the one who encouraged her to try smoking and share a cigarette, and even bought her cigarettes when she was only 16 and not old enough to buy on her own. I basically prodded her into becoming a smoker, so it’s my fault. She kept on smoking cigarettes everyday even after we broke up 14 years ago. She’s only 36, she’s too young to have lung cancer!
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I would never blame the person who introduced me to smoking if I got Cancer. I know it’s tough, but don’t beat yourself up. Show her love and support her fight. Be her friend…
At the end of the day, it was wholly her choice to continue smoking. No one forced her. You may have been an influencing factor, but you are not to blame.
That’s right! She decided to keep smoking!
She smoked because she liked it! That was her choice not yours!
Lung cancer is all her fault you had nothing to do with it!