My gf of 4 yrs and I agree we won’t get married until we’re more financially stable. In actuality, her lack of drive and complacency is the real reason I’m more hesitant. I’ve tried to bring up the importance of studies and working harder to earn more but the conversations become another floating reminder in the back of her head. I end up being called a workaholic when we need the income. I’m starting to get tired.

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