• 5 years ago
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Even though this is anonymous I’m still rlly worried about typing this out lol and submitting. I met this guy on this chatting site, we talked almost every other day. We always had a plan to talk at a certain time so we wouldn’t miss a chance to talk to each other…The problem is he’s 33 and i’m 16. We both been through rough times and we like opening up about it to each other since we dont have a lot of people in our lives to talk about these problems with., He has helped me and still is helping with my anxiety and depression… I have his number on my phone and we try to talk almost every weekend or so and also try to text during the school day… No one else knows about him. So he knows when to text me and when to not text me. For example when I go to bed and when I tell him I’m not free to chat, he knows what to do. My mom sometimes checks my phone when she gets the chance. I always delete our messages after we chat so I wont have to be questioned by her. It’s not like we text each other inappropriate stuff its just that my mom is very over protective and I dont want to lose a friend. We’ve known each other for about a year now. I couldn’t ask for a better person in my life!

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  • Make sure you two text each other on kik or some other messaging app so your mother doesn’t know. ?‍♂️

    Anonymous November 28, 2018 4:08 am Reply
    • yeah you’re right I want to but i’m not allowed to have kik and if i wanted to down lode any other chatting apps she would want an explanation why…and would prob disagree lol.

      Anonymous November 28, 2018 4:14 am Reply
      • just make sure you don’t get caught. if you’re benefiting,then you don’t want to lose this. make sure you don’t

        Anonymous November 28, 2018 4:19 am Reply
        • Of course, and thanks a lot for commenting it means a lot!

          Anonymous November 28, 2018 4:25 am Reply
  • They will track you
    They will find out

    You need to get pregnant

    Anonymous November 28, 2018 4:37 am Reply
    • Noooo dont say that!! It rlly scares me lol, I trust him very much. He’s not going to rape more or track me down…He’s better than that….

      Anonymous November 28, 2018 4:40 am Reply
  • This guy is not your friend. He might even think he is, but what he’s doing isn’t good for you. He’s putting you in a weird position, acting friendly with you and pretty much behaving like a boy your age. Trust me, that’s not normal for someone in his 30s. In about 10 years you’ll look back at this and be weirded out that a guy in his 30s was creeping on underage you. When you’re in your 30s, you’ll be completely disgusted by it because you won’t be able to imagine doing anything like it yourself.

    It’s okay to like older guys, but what could you possibly have in common with a person over twice as old as you? I know you’re just talking to him and being friendly, but he’s hoping for something more, and you need to wait at least wait until you’re 18 to do anything like that. And even then it’s probably not a great idea.

    You should end this pretty soon before he has you sending him naughty pictures.

    Anonymous November 28, 2018 6:33 am Reply
    • You think? We’ve been talking for about a year.. He hasn’t asked for nudes from me at all…why would he start now.

      Anonymous November 28, 2018 1:40 pm Reply
      • He probably thinks he has a chance at a real relationship with you. There’s no other reason a man his age would talk to a girl your age. That means he’s a strange 30-something with a lot of problems. Why wouldn’t he find someone in her 20s to talk to and date?

        The thing is, men are not like women. Like it or not, men are motivated primarily by their sex drives even when they don’t realize it. Sex isn’t ALL men want, but it is the thing PRIMARILY pushing them. Even if he thinks he’s in love or just being friendly, this guy is being driven by the possibility of a sex relationship with you. Guaranteed.

        And here’s the thing: he’s probably talking to several girls your age and “grooming” them all. It’s just text and chatting. He could easily do that while hiding it.

        Anonymous November 28, 2018 4:16 pm Reply
        • Oh I see, I didn’t realize about the whole “sex” drive thing…I’m personally waiting for marriage. so if we were going to arrange a time to see each other when i’m much older in person then I would tell him that i’m not interested to have any sexual activities with him…but I understand what you’re saying i’ll take more caution in our relationship.

          Anonymous November 28, 2018 9:42 pm Reply
  • Kik has become ‘the defacto app’ for child predators, according to an investigative report. The joint report found accounts belonging to users convicted of child abuse were not being removed.

    Kik is hardly alone when it comes to contending with abuse on its platform. Prominent social media companies such as Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube have been criticized for not doing enough to stop child abuse, harassment, and extremism on their respective platforms.

    Anonymous November 30, 2018 5:19 pm Reply
    • Thanks for informing me!

      Anonymous December 3, 2018 3:36 am Reply

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