My girlfriend loves me, and I used to love her for some time. But the love is dead, I can’t get over the fact that she has had unprotected s** with people before me. She said it’s too soon for s** when I asked her for it, she thought it was fast as I am a virgin, but would be okay if was experienced like the other guys. She went on to agree I loved her more than any of them ever did. I’ve been broken since that day, f*** her, I’m going to dump her as soon as she has s**. You can’t go around exploiting people’s love, right now I just pretend to love her, she keeps falling deeper and deeper while I’m just manipulating her into destroying herself over her love for me. tl;dr : she plays me for s**, because it’s not a big deal for her, so now I’m playing her for love, as love is not a big deal for me 🙂
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This right here is why you’ll always be alone. Lower your standards. Be glad this girl even decided to give your virgin ass a chance.
Yeah #1 is right. You probably don’t deserve this girl
But you should try to have sex with her though. Just beg her for it.
You’re obviously both young. Neither of you has any maturity.
The other two comments were probably written by women. No man, if he really likes a woman, LIKES that she’s had prior sexual experience. In most cases we know it has happened intellectually, but we just don’t think about it.
We also compare her level of experience both to our own experience and to the level of experience the women around her have… and if it’s a lot higher, we don’t like it unless we’re only interested in fucking her. Woman don’t want to hear that (muh double standard), but it’s true.
But that doesn’t mean your attitude is healthy, either. You should break up with her and find another girl who isn’t going through whatever this girl is going through. (It could be post-sex regret, or it could be she’s annoying manipulating you, or it could be something else.) At your age you won’t have trouble finding a virgin, add then you can both lose your virginity together.
* could be she’s enjoying manipulating you