I’m guilty that I love two people, i’ve been with my boyfriend for many years now and we are happy together but since meeting a guy at work I have had very intense feelings about him. Tonight we all met up for a drink and it was definitely awkward between me and him I feel, he was being quite guarded I felt and I think he may like me too but I’m not sure. Anyway, it’s not like anything will come of it but I can’t exactly ignore how much I care for him either.
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Sometimes people believe that they are happy in a longterm relationship, but it is more that they are comfortable. You may still care for each other ,but that’s not romantic love,the type of love that makes one want to spend their lifes together. You need to experience life with others and this person might be the one you really are looking to find!
I fear that you are right. I love my boyfriend, he saved me, but we don’t have much in common and aren’t really on the same wavelength and lately although accepting as I am I am tired that he is not looking after his health. This guy, I don’t know him enough though last night I drawed conclusions that even if there was a chance it probably wouldn’t work anyway because he strikes me as a very traditional man, I have traditions but I am certain I don’t want children and I think he does want them in his life.