whenever i say i am bi guys treat me in gross ways and disrespect my relationships with girls like its all “for attention.” i dont even kiss my girlfriend in public anymore because i cannot stand people acting like its a show for them and we want their approval or interest. what should i be doing? i dont want to hide our relationship, and i dont want to lie and say i am a lesbian. i can never see myself being with a man and i just wish theyd leave me alone forever.
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if you can’t see yourself with a man then you probably are lesbian
sometimes i am attracted to guys, and will fantasize about fake situations with them but the reality of being with a guy is not something i want. it feels like deception to say i am a lesbian because i know there is attraction there on some level even if i dont want to pursue it or dont feel i could be happy with men.