• 6 years ago
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I’m having an abortion on June 1st. I can’t be a mom. My bf doesn’t want to be a dad. I have school in the fall. I have no family and a $100 to my name. I’m on birth control. This wasn’t supposed to happen.

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  • That’s awesome to hear! Get that education, sister! 🙂

    Anonymous May 23, 2018 4:49 pm Reply
  • Stay strong.

    Anonymous May 23, 2018 5:12 pm Reply
  • “That’s awesome to hear!” – What a putz! Why not have the baby and give it up for adoption? I know a few women who have had them (none were mine before you ask) and they all felt guilty after the fact and still live with that feeling to this day that they killed another human being! Being a woman myself I’m all for women making their own decisions, however just remember that if you do go through with it you may feel that burden (abortion)for years to come!

    Anonymous May 23, 2018 5:27 pm Reply
    • And I know women who think it was the best decision they ever made. You might be a tad biased…..

      Anonymous May 23, 2018 8:24 pm Reply
  • You’re making a very sensible decision.

    Anonymous May 23, 2018 8:24 pm Reply
  • Very difficult decision. Whatever your choice it can never be undone. Be prepared for the guilts and the what ifs. God can make a way for you and your baby if you ask Him. You can do all things through Jesus Christ.

    Anonymous May 24, 2018 12:18 am Reply
    • Bit hard for God to do anything as he’s a fictitional character

      Anonymous May 24, 2018 8:48 pm Reply
  • How about adoption? My father was adopted, he has three children and four grandchildren. None of us would be here if his biological mother had an abortion

    Anonymous May 24, 2018 4:10 am Reply
  • Adoption is not always a viable alternative to abortion. Why do people always tout it like it’s the holy grail of options? She would still have to go through with the pregnancy, which means weight gain (the average is 30-50 pounds!), stress on her bones and organs (you do know the growing baby squishes the organs out of the way..right?), the possibility of gestational diabetes (no, you don’t need to be fat to get gestational diabetes), and then the possibility of a traumatic birth. She might tear, or need a c-section, which is major surgery, btw. And when she’s done, she’ll leave the hospital empty handed and 50 pounds heavier, with a permanently changed body covered in stretch marks. I didn’t even mention the mental anguish going through with a pregnancy could cause her. Being pregnant against your will is terrible.

    That baby will grow up in someone else’s home. They might have contact with their birth mom, or maybe they won’t. Their adoptive parents could end up being abusive, and/or the kid could resent their birth mom for ever having them. Or, she could have abortion, and save herself and another potential person a life of pain and unhappiness.

    Also, Not every woman who has an abortion feels guilty. In fact, studies show that women who are *refused* abortions suffer more mental issues than those who have them.

    Anonymous May 24, 2018 12:49 pm Reply

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