This is a long story…but I’ve been dating my boyfriend for nearly a year, and things were going good until a few months ago I was asleep…and he tried to have s** with me (he was inside me when I woke up). I pushed him off and went back to sleep. It wasn’t until the morning after I realised the seriousness of it all. It was basically r***. So we went through a rough patch and everyone asked about my boyfriend and I said things were complicated and we weren’t really together. So my guy best friend (that I’ve had an on/off crush on for 3 years) has been getting closer to me, hanging out after school, holding my hand, carrying my bag/books (I have an injury), complimenting me, always talking or touching me in some way (hand, back, arm, leg). But now things are a little better with my boyfriend but I’ve got feelings for my best friend too.
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Go with your best friend he sounds like a nicer guy than your boy friend.
I agree
Tbh I’ve had the same thing happen to me and my boyfriend was being a huge asshole so I went with my best friend and we’re together for some months now
I suggest you do that too he might be the better choice girl
Rape your s sad case really .why not just prosecute him prison for life. Hang him. I hop e he dies and you feel really bad for thinking that.
If my girlfriend wanted it, got on top of me or went down on me while I was asleep . And I didn’t want it, but she persisted..I certainly would NOT even insinuate that she was raping me.that’s BULL SHIT. And you want equality HA never . This is a cop out. That is blowing it way way way out of proportion ,that a problem
If you don’t agree then shut and charge him w rape and ruin his life forever.
It is sex without consent. That is rape. You were raped as well. You may not see it that way, but you were.
So now what? I send my now wife away for raping me,hmm kids will lose their mother ,I’ll !lose my wife , she will be utterly destroyed.mentally, physically,socially,and never be able to live a normal life after she gets out.
But at least I’ll have my justice!!!
Sounds good I’ll file tomorrow ,she’ll never see this coming.single fatherhood here I come!
Your experience was also rape. Having sex with another person against their will is rape. Ignoring their “no!” is rape. It doesn’t matter if you don’t think your situation or hers doesn’t qualify as rape. Legally, it’s rape, and your girlfriend and the op’s bf can be prosecuted and jailed.
Legally, we are all sex offenders too! Look it up. Their definition applies to 99.9% of college life. Streaking across campus use to be for fun ,now an l&l charge,5 yrs prison. Or how bout when you flash a guy for fun …another l&l 5yrs.
Legally i could go on and show you verbatim,the ridiculous laws pertaining to sex.that you probably didn’t realize,but have violated them .so let’s get technical!
Stop all the b.s. Was his intent to harm her or my gf now wf intent to harm me?
Hmm?…..I chose to give the benefit of doubt, and say a big big NO. OTHER WISE I
Do have about 3 girls from my past ,that I could twist and accuse of raping me!!
So what? I go hunt them down and ruin their lives too.
If I have a headache and are not in the mood,or what ever and I’m sleeping w\ my “partner”, whom I say to care about in not going to use distorted thinking, and tell them no ,and If they persist, scream rape!
Sound like a quick way out of a relationship, oh ya do it enough and you’ll become a total pariah.
It is a personal choice how you react to it. But the OP boyfriend did violate her rights. She had absolutely no control over this. So it is rape. Furthermore, what if he accidentally impregnated her? This could ruin her life.
I guess she wasn’t in for long term huh? that’s why I dated just to fuc k around ! We call it whoring around, that term is asexual, and at that stage sex was All part of it!
Just some “fun”, how convenient! Oops time to go …RAPE .I’M GONE
Next time just leave a note and get out .it’s less damaging
What he did is not correct. It was not like they were both wasted and hooked up. She was sleeping and he wanted sex. Is it straight out rape. No, but it is not right. He did not have her consent but he also stopped when she said no. He is not in the right. I would talk to him about this and to have him explain his self.
Cheat on your boyfriend for as long as you can with your friend. Not only are you getting him back for raping you, but you’re happy with a real lover. Then after you break up, report him to the police for what he did, if your case is solid enough.