So, theres this guy (lets call him A) and he really likes me and I used to like him a lot too. We are on the same water polo team and used to be great friends. We have known each other since like 2nd grade, anyway this summer A and I would hang out every day at the pool and the park and it was great. Then he told me he was falling for me. I didn’t feel the same way at the time so I told him that I didn’t feel ready for a relationship at the moment and that it would be best if we just stayed friends. Anyway in the fall I started getting very strong feelings for him too. I told one of my best friends I liked A and then he decided to go and tell him. So anyway A still liked me (luckily) and we had thing kinda half boyfriend/girlfriend relationship we didn’t go on dates or anything. We still hung out but generally with other people. Eventually things started to get very repetitive and we stopped talking for a while. Then on valentines day he said he still loved me and that he would love to start things up again. I was happy because I still loved him too. Anyway, in late April, A still was having trouble communicating with me and couldn’t seem to convey his feelings I began to get a crush on another guy on our team. (lets call him B) I have a lot more in common with B and he is sweet, funny, cute, and he asked me out just a couple weeks ago. I told him I couldn’t because I still didn’t know what’s happening with A. I feel terrible because we both have a past and I don’t want to hurt anyone but I know I have to choose soon. Does anyone have advice?

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