I lied to my husband about credit card debt. I know it is going to put a huge strain on our marriage and his trust in me. I don’t want to be alive right now but I also know how selfish suicide is. I am so lost and don’t know what to do.
I lied to my husband about credit card debt. I know it is going to put a huge strain on our marriage and his trust in me. I don’t want to be alive right now but I also know how selfish suicide is. I am so lost and don’t know what to do.
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Well, first of all, confess about the lie. Not sure if he knows your state of being, but talk to him, tell him about whatevers going on. You married him cause you trust him and know that he’ll ALWAYS be there for you, he’ll try to understand so the two of you can find a solution, if that’s not a feasibly, (ie your guilty of infidelity or of such sort) tell a friend, surround yourself with good people, see a shrink, even go to support meetings for AA, sounds a bit farfetched but individuals there are suffering too, since suffering is universal, regardless of it being caused from general apathy, depression or an addiction, whatever facet, find a connection, be honest to yourself and don’t hide. Don’t dig yourself into a hole, or ever DON’T GIVE UP. Let people know your suffering, use the love and support from your husband and friends for a reason to live.
I don’t know the whole picture to your troubles, but there’s a start.
To an extent, I can relate to your ailment, when I was going through hard times, keeping connected helped me stay in check with the importance that life’s worth living for, as hackneyed that may sound.
Hope this helps. xo <3
Thank you
There are support groups out there try AA or celebrate recovery. Tell your hubby, apologize,tell him how your feeling also all your pain.