They’ve called me for the IVF today and I don’t know if I want to do it. There is too many questions regarding safety and ethical issues, then shame, how it will effect my future…But I want to have baby. But I am afraid. Like I’m half worth.
- 6 years ago
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How on earth are there ethical issues?
If I didn’t give birth till now, why would I interfere in God’s work?
Erm, fictional characters are not relevant in your daily life….
IVF isn’t a moral dilemma. As a mother let me explain that the real issue is preparing yourself for parenthood. You say goodbye to your identity as a human being in order to teach another how to be a civilized individual.
No breaks, no sick days, and generally no sympathy from child free others.
If you are going to attempt IVF you need to understand how difficult raising (or losing) a child can be. Prepare yourself, your home, and your own expectations.
But if you really need to think on this…
Here’s the real philosophical question for you:
If god didn’t want to give people the chance to have children why would he let IVF be an option? Why would he give women the chance to be mothers through unusual means if he wasn’t accepting of it? And if he wasn’t happy with unusual pregnancies how could he love his own son who was birthed by a Virgin?