I could not perform s******* with my first girlfriend. Her name is Jennifer. It wasn’t that I didn’t like her and she was definitely into the idea of having s**, but I couldn’t get it up. We dated for over a year and I could never become erect enough to get it in her. I had the same problem with my second girlfriend for the first few months, but eventually I was able to complete the act. Years later it still hangs in the back of my mind anytime that I’m with a woman, “what if it doesn’t work”. Occasionally I still have the same problem, but I make an excuse like “I’m tired” or “I have a lot on my mind”.
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You got to please your girl. If you can’t perform than you still got to get her off, whether manually or orally. You got to keep her pleased.
So are you just too much in your own head and this is causing this. Are you not attracted to them? Do you have the desire to have sex with them? I know that is probably not the case but I feel I have to ask, but are you sure your into woman? You think of guys at all?