i like this girl and we are best friends. i was once walking down a short hall where i was about to go to my next class, and we were having a conversation about how we both had a slight crush on our theater teacher. I accidentally said “i’m straight for Mr.——-, and im gay for you.” we always make jokes like this because we take a lot of pride in LGBTQ+ and we are not afraid of it, so i thought she would let it slide and say something like ‘nice joke’ but when i had to separate from her she said “wait, was that a confession?” i froze and ran to my next class. At lunch that same day, i told her about what i said, and that i did like her. she said to me, “I like you too, but i already have a girlfriend, and now i don’t know who to stay with.” On December 20th, last year,i had to talk to her about how i didn’t like her saying “i love you” to me and then going on Instagram and saying “i love you” to her girlfriend. It was a heart to heart conversation and i started crying because i felt so hurt. all she could reply with was “I’m sorry” over and over again. a few minutes after i started crying, she lifted my head up and kissed me right then and there! i felt so happy. A few days after that, she asked me to be her girlfriend, but she still hasn’t broken up with her other girlfriend that (may i mention) is all the way in Singapore, while we are in the USA.
- 6 years ago
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That’s messed up. It’s unfair to both you and the girlfriend.
yeah it gives me a lot of stress and she knows that, but she says that she loves both of us equally and its really hard for her
If she’s willing to make you go go through that, what kind of friend is she? Dump her. She will just hurt you. That’s messed up
no its not like that. i have this kind of undying love for her and i am willing to forgive her for anything she does, because she forgives me for everything i do. its hard for a lot of people to understand, but i dont know what i would do without her, since shes the only one that can help with my extreme sadness
Talk to her about it. If you communicate clearly and precisely why this hurts you, then if she’s a good person, she’ll make the right choice.