I am a female, who has a fantasy of being raped, and I’m scared about what this means. I don’t condone r***, as it is a horrible thing that has negatively impacted several people, but I really just want to be in that situation, without having to deal with the aftermath. Does that make me a horrible person?
I have a recurring dream of being kidnapped at night, taken to someone’s house, t****** and f***** however they want to f*** me. I get turned on just thinking about being used and forced into s**. I just worry what this says about me. Am I messed up? Is this normal?
I also fantasize about being a s** slave. That just screams human trafficking, which I know is terrible and has to be prevented. I don’t actually want this to happen to me, but at the same time I desperately do. I want to be forced and controlled and treated as an object to be used. Why am I fantasizing about the very things that I stand against?
Also, is it even possible for me to live these fantasies? Can I be used and controlled, and how would I go about finding someone to do that to me safely?
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Rape roleplay isn’t exactly a new idea. Try fetlife for a community that understands and supports experiences like this.
Woww…feels so much like me…although i’m a man….but having same kind of fantasies in my dreams…
How old are you? I think these fantasies are normal because you desire to be taken in ways a normal guy just can’t do to satisfy you.
Well, I think the reason that it scares me is because I’m really young and fairly innocent.
Come here, little girl. I’ve got a puppy and some candy in my van.
You don’t need to guilt yourself for your desires, particularly when you are able to identify how those ideas can be harmful to real people and thus refrain from expressing them around those who might truly be sensitive to the topic. That self-awareness is worth a lot, so you should give yourself a little credit.
So, there are communities where you can explore and discuss this fantasy with other accepting, consenting adults. I personally don’t know how to find them, but lurking around those online spaces might be a start. Reading about other peoples’ experiences with rape fantasy will help you understand your own fantasies and see how important it is to your sex life and see where you draw the line.
You said you’re young, so, it’s not bad to try new things. Trying doesn’t have to mean acting out the fantasy, but it does mean being open to understanding yourself better, instead of feeling guilty. You’ll be happier when you do.
There is a while BDSM lifestyle – of consensual slavery and such. In some instances, consensual nonconsent (in other words, you let someone Dominate you however they want). A lot of times, this most definitely involves being kept bound and gagged, used as a slave.
I’m a Dominant male, seeking a slave actually. If you’d be interested, comment back here. I’d love to talk more. But living out this fantasy, be it with me or someone else, could definitely happen.