Hello all, yesterday I made a post that got a lot of attention and I’m really grateful for all of the encouraging words. 🙂 I’m 19 M going to university and through my recent terrible break up and hospitalizations for trying to do some bad things, I’ve been trying to get better. But through all of this, all I can think about is being with a woman. All I want in my life is to love and be loved in absolutely every way. I want to hold hands, hug, kiss, and make love to a woman who I will one day marry. I have seen an abusive relationship and that isn’t love, I want to be loved so desperately. I know I’m young and have a lot ahead of me, but I can’t help but want what is in my heart. Tell me what you guys think, thank you.
-Volodya
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Don’t push yourself to be in a relationship before your mentally, and emotionally stable.
Or else you’ll get hurt and won’t make stable minded decisions on whats real love and what isn’t .The wrong women can take advantage of you like that or use it in their favors. You have to work on you first before you can have a healthy relationship. You’ll know when it’s the right time and when it isn’t the right time.
I know, and I really will try to. That’s what happened to me last time, I felt taken advantage of and that really hurt me. I’ve been trying to focus on myself, but I can’t help but want a woman you know? Thank you for your encouraging words. 🙂
Love yourself first or you’ll never be able to love others. Love yourself— but don’t lower your standards to do it. Take some time to develop a skill, or read a book, or meet interesting people.
I’ll try, it’s just hard since I’m at university and surrounded by so many pretty girls. It’s almost all I can think about, I’m trying to get help, thank you.
Awww you sound like a sweet guy. I’m sure any girl would like you if they give you a chance. Good luck!
I’ll try, it’s just hard since I’m at university and surrounded by so many pretty girls. It’s almost all I can think about, I’m trying to get help, thank you.