Should I make a move on him – and how? I’m going crazy obsessing over these signs! Can someone be brutally honest with me? Does he like me based on these things:
– we banter a LOT, constantly teasing each other and making fun of each other, but only when we’re out drinking
– I’ve caught him looking at my breasts and b***, but maybe he checks out all young girls?
– sometimes he doesn’t text back but he’s part of the ‘old generation’ and has an old clunky phone – maybe he’s no texter? He calls me when he wants to reach me
– he talks about his girlfriend and her kids a lot 🙁 but less and less now
– he called me ‘kid’ once 🙁
– he tries to mentor me with everything (he knows a lot) – maybe he sees me as a child?
– he makes intense eye contact, but I think he’s like that with everyone
– he texted one day after a big night out and said, ‘do you have a hang over’
– he offered to come over when I was at home alone with a random male airbnb guest and felt nervous
– he once said (drunkedly) that women in their 20s are rubbish in bed, only good till they get older (WTF?)
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Sounds like he just likes hanging out. Especially if he had a girlfriend. Who knows though, he could be into you. Try to subtly bring it up when you’re out drinking. Say things like “do you think I’m hot”. Be a bit more touchy with him and see how he responds. Most older guys do like younger girls. So he could like you
Wow OP here..
Please don’t bother replying to this. Rereading this insane list just proves how ridiculous this all is. It’s like a drug addiction that messes with your head 🙁
Talking less about his girlfriend is a good thing, but everything else doesn’t really tell me much. Checking out your breasts and butt are good things, but I do that myself with just about all females. Maybe tell him about a movie you’d really like to see, or a place you like to go to, but you don’t feel comfortable going by yourself.