The current situation. I am 53, my husband 68. His mistress of 15 years is 42. My husband and I have two grown children, my husband and his mistress have three children ages 13, 10 and 7. Up till now I have my house and she has her house.
Now, my husband retired and money is tight. I work and she works, we are both professionals. To save money she and I sat down and reviewed all our individual expenses, and which expenses he pays. Basically he has paid housing, schooling and cars. If she moves in with us her kids can go to public school, we save one house, and we can do without one car.
The open mouths, the negative criticism, the ‘I told you sos” are deafening. He is not s******* responsive any more, not good for him but it’s a fact. And what makes people believe she was a secret. Who do you think showed her how to take care of babies? If she enthused him enough to be able to have s** I would bring her home today. We want to live together. Basically that’s it, we want to live together, we have forceably been kept apart and it’s time we blend our homes.
