today, i had my boyfriend over.We did what we usually do but then it went further than expected.We ”basically” had s**.Now he didn’t go completely inside and neither of us were completely there (in a trance), but now i sit here crying about it.After what had happened we just stared at each other, pupils dilated and red eyed. Because neither of us was technically ready he thought he had just raped me.I assured him it wasn’t but he just kept saying it,and saying it and saying it utill we both started to cry.I tried to assure him, I knew it wasn’t r*** because truthfully we both enjoyed it and didn’t stop each other.But now i sit here, keyboard in hand crying because i made him cry and think all this madness.If i had pulled away in time none of this would have happened.I am 15, and i have just lost my virginity today
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It’s ok I promise =) as long as no one finds out then everything will be good tell him that if it was rape then u would have stoped him. And as long as its a secret everything will be ok
Might be a good idea to keep some condoms, etc. on hand, just in case of next time. 🙂 Better safe than sorry (i. e., pregnant).
Just be careful. It’ll be ok. I cried when I lost my virginity for like a week because I wasn’t ready (and did it with a jerk!!) but oh well. I’m fine now.
I lost mine to a guy who was not even my boyfriend. He never even called me after that night and it was a horrible moment. I feel so bad for you because I was 15 too but you know what, he sounds like a good guy and he is emotional .. Just move passed this moment together. You will be ok.
He cried? Oh.. He’s a sweet guy i guess.. Just be happy! you lost it to a one who cares about you! And it’s definitely not rape..
If he didn’t completly go inside you didn’t completly lose your virginity.