It is convoluted,
My mom was raped by one of her brothers as a child, when she told my dad he never let her live it down and still makes her feel bad about it.
Fast forward and my younger brother rapes another my then youngest brother. She catches him forcing my youngest brother to give a blow job and confronts them. She then decided to not tell my dad because she didn’t want to have him treat my youngest brother the way he treated her. To cover it up, she let the brother live in the home until he turned 18 and then kicked him out.
She has since given my youngest brother multiple opportunities to tell our dad, and he has always declined. In fact he refuses to talk to anyone about it. He has uncontrollable rage issues.
Tonight he involves my mom in a fight I’m having with him and then yells on top of his lungs that it is her fault because he was raped and she covered it up. He chose the worst way to tell my dad and is now trying to pin everything on her.
