I’m so sick of hearing him talk about porn, sex, and fetishes. Ours is supposed to be an open, honest relationship where we can talk about anything but all he wants to talk about is sex. He turns mundane conversations into sexual innuendos and implications. And then the constant badgering to HAVE sex. There is no spontaneity anymore, it’s bedtime? No it’s playtime. And it won’t be bedtime until after he gets playtime. Even if I get kept awake until 4am to have to get up at 8, because he will whine and huff and sigh and make passive agressive comments like “well, good night I guess” and “so much for playtime” until he gets sex. I feel like a talking fleshlight to him sometimes. I give him plenty and often what he needs, but when I’m not in the mood I don’t want to be hassled like I owe him something!
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sound like you two are on two different level of sex drive.
you see I only need sex maybe twice a week, other people are more obsessed about it, others are just prunes.
I’d probably dumb him but that’s just me.
Stop bitching and give him sex when he wants it.
She doesn’t have to give him sex when he wants it. She is a separate person and is entitled to control her own libido. Unlike her boyfriend who probably should just get used to masturbating when she doesn’t feel like being his own sex toy.
No, she owes him sex when he fucking wants it. She should stop being a bitch and spread her legs.
No she doesn’t. She doesn’t have to do anything for anyone because no one owns her. Not even her horndog of a boyfriend. She isn’t being a bitch for wanting to do what she wants or doesn’t want to do. If you actually think she is OBLIGATED to do this, then I’m afraid you are going to be constantly bombarded by disappointment. Believe it or not, the whole world does not revolve around dicks. Get the fuck over yourself man.
As a female, she is ABSOLUTELY obligated to give him sex.
No she is not. Just because she is a woman does not make her a fuck machine. She’s a human being with opinion and her own individuality. You are fucked up for thinking that is all women exist for. The world does not revolve around dicks.
You really should be communicating this to him. How old are you? Tell your lover what you need and his. Otherwise, he might go looking elsewhere. You should be happy he is that into you. Men that aren’t won’t try. Just be honest.
Dump his sorry ass, girl. That’s all the advice I can give you.