I love my girlfriend. I would never cheat on her, or on anybody. That’s a horrible thing to do. She’s currently in Cambodia for a month, volunteering . Lately, I ‘ be made friends with two girls who I’m pretty sure like me. And they’re really hot. And I have far more in common with them than I do with my girlfriend. The other night, I was out drinking with one of them and a couple of friends. On the way home, she put her arm around mine despite knowing I’m taken. We were drunk, to be fair. I don’t know. I don’t think I’ll do anything stupid, I just feel really bad and guilty. I never thought I would have a dilemma like this. It’s like I want to cheat but I don’t at the same time, and that makes me feel like I’m morally weak, when I’ve prided myself for years on being morally strong. Guys really aren’t programmed for monogamy. And it s****. It hurts. But I guess that’s just part of the sacrifice you have to make to commit yourself to the girl you love. I can’t wait for her to come back. Hopefully I’ll stop feeling like this.
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I can relate to how that feels. im married and ive never cheated a single time in my life. its something I swore I could and would never do. recently tho my spouse is away for business for a month. in this time, in very rapid succession, ive gotten some time to really talk with an acquaintance of mine and we became quickly good friends and then in a matter of days we both realized feelings are involved. this person is everything ive ever wanted in a partner, they are perfect in every single way. my marriage is good, we have our problems like any other couple and theyre nothing major or that we cant work out. I love my spouse and would never leave. but this friend, I cannot get them out of my head and I do not trust either of us alone together. I actually think I love them. not IN love but I could be if I let myself, and that scares me more than I know how to handle.
I’m a chick and I don’t think we’re programmed for monogamy either – I strongly believe that nobody is.
People can be faithful to one person. It’s called resisting temptation and being loyal.
Bullshit. Monogamy is a conscientious decision, just like sticking your fucking penis in a light socket is a decision. Don’t make excuses for yourself.
Oh and that last one- yea i am a guy and a very horny one to boot.