I have been with my boyfriend for three years and I noticed that before we done it that all we wanted to do is just show our physical love for each other. Him being my first to literally everything; I was open to the idea but always afraid because I didn’t know what to expect. When it finally happen I don’t really want it as often as he does anymore. Is that normal? I love him to death I just don’t feel the need for it anymore. I guess I was let down and I expected more … Or maybe I wasn’t ready. Yea … Most likely that.