I have a problem. Ive been dating my bf for over a year, and we have a wonderful relationship. He treats me better than any other guy, he has a job, hes responsible, he has his own place, hes smart, hes funny…but he as a really small p****. At first it didnt bother me, I figured I could adapt over time, but its really beginning to bother me now. Ive never had an o***** during s** with him, not even once. And I dont dare mention it to him because hes really sensitive about it.
Now heres the worst part. Ive recently been texting with an old ex of mine from a few years ago. It started out innocent, but lately hes been getting flirty with me. Normally I wouldnt think anything of it but hes very well endowed, and its been so long since Ive been satisfied in bed, I just cant stop thinking about him. I know it would crush my bf if he knew I was still talking to this guy, much less fantasizing about him and his much larger p****.
I feel horrible for even considering it but I miss good s** so much its killing me. Im sick of having to fake orgasms every single time with my bf. I just want to be satisfied for once. I dont know what Im going to do but I do know I feel terrible for this. If I could take my ex bfs p**** and switch it wit my current bfs p****, everything would be perfect.
Its tearing me up inside with all this pondering and guilt. My ex has his own place and it would be really easy to pay him a visit every once in a while, but I would feel so guilty even if my bf never ever found out. I just dont know what to do.
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just talk to your boyfriend about it! it is going to be a difficult conversation but its better then if something happened between you and your ex. Just talk to him and help him give you an orgasm other ways! it will help you and him!
You don’t understand. I could never, EVER talk to him about this. His ego would be crushed and it would make things much, much worse. He already had at least one girlfriend dump him for the same reason.
Look, sometimes you have to be selfish a bit. I’m not saying dump him for that reason, but sexual fulfillment is an integral part of any relationship. If you are not satisfied, he needs to know that BEFORE you start straying. It’s only fair. Maybe he can find other ways of pleasing you. If he loves you, he will try, because he won’t want to lose you like the last girl you mentioned.
I totally agree wid u…
truth…if you cant talk to him about this than is that even gonna work long term…I mean it may be uncomfortable and he may be embarrasses or even horrified and hurt…but trust me he would rather have a conversation about his smaller endowment and how changing a few things could satisy both of you… than a convo about why you cheated on him w/ your ex cuz he was more satisfying…that would be a ego killer! Not sure your age…but maybe if you coyly take him into a shop like Christy’s that are not too vulgar…they have items that even go over his member to give you more pleasure…he seems like great guy, hate for you to feel like you needed to lose all that over a fixable issue.
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#6 is an idiot.