I hate my small breasts more

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I hate my small breasts more than anything. I feel horrible because I know that so many other people have it so much worse. People are losing their loved ones to cancer and many other terrible things, some have lost limbs, some themselves are dying. Yet here I sit, day-to-day worrying about something so trivial as small breasts. I cry every single day over it, I hate my body and used to self-harm to punish myself for being so ugly. Although I understand that I have it good compared to others, I simply cannot get over how much I loathe my body.

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  • Just do lots of anal. Guys will get over your flatness quick if you offer up your ass.

    Anonymous May 5, 2014 4:25 pm Reply
  • Its ok you’re you not them, comparison sucks . I hope one day you can feel compassion for yourself

    Anonymous May 5, 2014 6:44 pm Reply
  • Insecurities can eat us alive. You know, many men prefer small breasts? Almost as many as those who prefer them large. It’s really not so bad, and there’s nothing you can do about it but learn to accept it and maybe someday even embrace it as a good thing. No sense in punishing yourself for something beyond your control, it’s not like you chose this.

    Anonymous May 5, 2014 6:48 pm Reply
  • Don’t hate on yourself so much! This damned media driven society we live in has promoted the idea that to be a beautiful a woman has to have huge breasts, plump lips, thick eyelashes, and a slim body. It’s ridiculous!

    Girl, you’re beautiful! Your boobs don’t make you! They’re just a part of your anatomy, and their size isn’t a big deal! And the above commenter is right… lots of men prefer smaller breasts… and a guy who would base his love for you on your boobs wouldn’t be worth your time anyway.

    Take it from a fellow small-breasted woman. I’m flat chested. Really, I barely have cleavage unless I try to put my elbows together. The only reason I even have to wear a bra is to make sure my nipples don’t point through my clothes, because there’s nothing else there. I spent a long time hating myself and hating my boobs, trying to find my small breasts as a deformity and making myself feel worthless and ugly. I was so shamed of my body- not only my small boobs, but my wide hips and huge butt- that I would wear layers of clothes and large coats to hide myself from everyone. But that time is over!

    My husband loves my boobs. I’m no model… heck, I’m short and slightly overweight, but he still finds me attractive and tells me I’m beautiful.

    Anyway, if this hurts you so deeply, maybe you should see a therapist about it. Body image can be a huge thing especially to young women.

    Anonymous May 5, 2014 7:21 pm Reply
  • Body image can be a huge deal for life, that is if you allow the negative thoughts of yourself to override your self worth. Lots of men appeal to breasts of all shapes and sizes.
    I type that as a woman with larger breasts who doesn’t like being seem as an object.

    Anonymous May 5, 2014 11:16 pm Reply
  • wait, but why?
    wouldn’t you rather have a guy look at your face than your cleavage? (uhm, ie respect YOU and not your body?)
    wouldn’t you rather attract the right kind of people?
    don’t you like being able to run without worrying about “bouncing”? because trust me, it hurts.
    and don’t you enjoy your privileges of being able to wear practically WHATEVER you want?! sure, there are those few times when you can’t wear a dress for people with big boobs. but people with big boobs can’t wear tank tops, any tighter shirt or even bikinis without being judged by girls and ogled at by guys. it’s not a good feeling, it really isn’t.

    Anonymous May 6, 2014 12:15 am Reply

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