My bestest friend and i had a weird conversation two days ago. i think he was struck with V-day fever, cos he tried to make me spell out ho i feel about him. i think he wanted me to say i like him a lot, so he could say the same…but he’s always told me how he likes this other girl who doesnt feel the same way. and that’s how he began this convoluted conversation. while insisting that he loved the other girl , he said he’d be unable to refuse me if i said i had feelings for him. i felt rather bad, cos i felt like a replacement for the other girl, and cos he didnt ask me straight out. i guess i was a little sharp, i told him not to insult my intelligence by assuming i’d fall for a guy who’s mooning after another girlfriend.it may have been hurtful to him, but i felt like i was his last resort or something. he got upset and left.i apologized for my behaviour the next time we chatted online, and he was reasonably civil about it then, but he refuses to acknowledge my presence in college, he walks right past me without even looking. i’ve lost a friend, and i don’t like the abruptness of it.
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if he is your friend everything will work out. take your time &talk it out.
he doesnt seem to want to talk at all. it’s like he hates me. and he asked me why i should be jealous of the girl he loved, when he loved me as well. i’m rather grossed out.