• 6 years ago
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I understand now why people jump from relationship to relationship. It’s because the hole that’s left behind after heartbreak can’t be filled by anything other than love. I get it now; the hole is a constant, it’s always there. The best you can do is try to ignore it, but every once in a while, your mind wanders and you realise that the hole is still there, and that you’re still in pain. It feels like every time you revisit that pain, the hole gets slightly bigger, and the pain gets slightly more painful.

So people get into a vicious cycle of falling in love for the wrong reasons. Not because they think they’ve found the perfect person, but because that hole gets filled, and all of a sudden you aren’t carrying that pain anymore. It creates the illusion that this person makes you feel good, but you’re just filling in your emptiness with anything that will do the job. And when you realise they aren’t right for you, you’re leaving them with that same hole in their heart. And so the cycle begins for them. Thanks.

I won’t be a part of this cycle though, it would be so easy to just resort to this, because sure, the pain would go away, albeit for a while, but I know how much it hurts to be on the receiving end.

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