• 7 years ago
  • 108 Views

If I could go back in time, I would never have had children. I am growing to hate my oldest son. He is only 8.

All Comments

  • Maybe instead of growing to hate him, you should learn to love him. My dad was a total deadbeat, (and he was abusive) and if I see something similar in the making, I have to speak up for the sake of that child, because I wish I could have had the same oppurtunity. So here you have two options. 1. You realize that you are obviously dealing with something deeper instead of taking it out on your child and saying ‘Wah, I hate him, I never wanted him.’ Find the root of the problem, fix yourself, (and the problem) and learn to love your child. That child deserves love. Or 2. You could throw you hands up in the air and say I hate my child. (And then later realize in life you were probably going through a midlife crisis or something but its too late now, you left your kids. You can’t just waltz back into their life. Trust me. I would know. My father is currently trying to after not talking to me for ten years. The ten most important, and impactful of my life to be honest.) Your choice though dude. Hard one at that.

    Anonymous August 23, 2017 12:37 am Reply

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Simply Confess