12-09-09(3:01:12)

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i feel like my bf wants to take over my life, wanting me to spend time with him ALL THE TIME, getting mad when i see my friends, getting mad at me for stupid random things. He calls me a flirt, which is something i have never been seen as, only he has told me this. I feel like he only sees my faults and i disappoint him with everything i do. I feel like he doesn’t love me for who i am…he doesn’t see the little things i do for him, the thoughtful things. He gets mad at me for asking the same questions everyday…he makes me think of things to do, he never helps me plan anything. SUre he’ll pay for both, what’s the point if we just do the same thing all the time. I say sorry so many times a week i lose count, sometimes i say sorry for things i don’t even know why. He says he wants to marry me and i love him, but I just wish he could change his ways just a little. Please for me. I try to tell him, but i never know what’s going through his head. All i ask is to please be a little more considerate.

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  • he is just jealous of you… u r stupid for being with him i know from extensive experience men are only demanding creatures that are selfish and selfcentered become a lesbian and you will live a happy life with noo nagging but extensive pleasure

    in other words get a life

    Anonymous September 12, 2009 9:17 pm Reply
  • Tell your boyfriend you want him to treat you like he wants you to treat him. This includes trust issues, I’m sure he still wants to see HIS friends.You both should. Never totally stop seeing friends just because you have a boyfriend. I think a lot of this comes with maturity.I hope the best for you!

    Anonymous September 13, 2009 6:30 am Reply
  • story of my life:)
    never get married to him, he might kill you.

    Anonymous September 14, 2009 1:59 pm Reply
  • You sound fairly young, dson’t marry this man, I have been with the same man 9 years, married 3, and honestly, my life sounds like yours, I am trying to find a way to get out with my sanity and pride, that is almost gone, the sad part is, I was NOT like this before him, again, don’t marry him, he won’t change…

    Anonymous October 21, 2009 1:11 pm Reply
  • dude if the boy can only give you shit he probably is shit, and he probably doesnt deserve you and he knows it so he makes you feel like shit. and lets be fair he must obviously need you more than him. the last boy that pulled that on me also told me ‘no always meant yes’ and then took me for everything. he couldnt achieve the way i did so he wanted to destroy me. does your understanding of love mean you pull someone apart? no you accept them faults and all without complaint- you aim to make them a better person, to help them achieve. love should give you confidence and freedom!

    Anonymous October 22, 2009 9:31 pm Reply
  • p.s. i am agreed – he really might kill you or beat you.

    Anonymous October 22, 2009 9:32 pm Reply

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