When I was in highschool, before i started seeing my current SO, I slept with a coworker. things got kind of weird and messy. My SO hates the guy, but he doesnt know that I actually slept with him because I was so embarrassed and ashamed of myself. I ran into said coworker after not seeing him for 5 years last week. I kind of want to get a drink with him to catch up and just say hi. Nothing weird or inappropriate, but I’m afraid my SO would see it that way. I’m not going to do it, I just want to. That alone makes me feel bad about the situation
