My husband (10 years married) and I haven’t had s** for a while. We are both still young (28&29). Most recently I found out he was gay. I want to tell him that I know but I’m ashamed to say. So I asked another man to flirt with him. They had s** and now I want to confess the truth.
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You should definetly tell him. You can’t just go on living your marrige pretending you don’t know your husband is gay and that he is cheating on you. I would suggest seeing a couples counsler. Maybe you could patch things up. Maybe because you guys weren’t having sex he went looking for sex elsewhere and he ended going a little wild. I don’t know, but you need to talk things through for sure. If it would make you feel better maybe you could have a friend there for emotional support. Because I don’t think this will be a easy nor pretty conversation.