when i got back to the states, i was in the 10th grade. i became friends with these girls. they asked me to spend the weekend with them at a lake house. they brought boys, and one of them was for me. i didn’t want him, but they held me down and he took my virginity.
after that i was his girlfriend and no one else was allowed near me. now i am getting married to him. i have never known another boy, and i am going to be his wife. when i marry him i will swear submission to him, as my mother did to my father. i will be his wife for he is the man that took me. his mother will want me full with babies and she has told me that i must have a boy. i pray for a boy.
i wish that i would have known more or even maybe that i could have chosen for me. i will be a wife.
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Forgive me for prying, but what sort of fucked up little isolated community do you live in?
T.A.
You don’t even love him?? and you’re going to be his wife??
Wow! Your story is crazy!! …
Good luck girl…
And same as T.A…
How old are you now??
A.
i dont think getting married should be like a duty or smthn just because he took ur virginity! R u sure u want u commit to him forever?…i guess u did have the chance to meet others but u always tried to convince urself that u were stuck with him…just a thought
to TA, i am 17, and will be 18 when i marry. my family is from India, and i will marry an Indian boy. he chosen for me and he has taken me. i cannot marry another. we will live with his mother so i can learn how to take care of him. i pray i have a boy early, i don’t want to have girls until i have a boy.
OP, I understand that your culture is a different and has specific norms that not many others have, but I do disagree with it and I do think you have other things to worrying about than whether you want to have a boy or girl first. I know I probably can’t change anything since that is your culture, but I just want to state my apologies and disagreement to your case. Good luck with whatever you do.
T.A.
Run away. Never let a man take over you. Aside from God, you are the one who makes choices. Do what you have to do to live your own life.